Was that clinical enough?
]]>“So son, where are you spending your honeymoon?”
“Well… I dunno… thought maybe we’d go camping…”
“Camping?!”
“Well… yeah…”
(we had no money)
My dad gave me a look of disgust and said “tell ya what son, you take your wife over to the Homestead Ranch Resort in Heber. I’ll pay.”
“Ahh gee dad you don’t have to…”
“Believe me son, there are some things you DON’T want to figure out in a tent.”
]]>Your father was a wise man.
Lessie,
Sex can be— underwhelming after all the hype it gets in movies, music, and culture in general. It’s like the gold standard of pleasure: everything gets compared to it. For example, I’ve heard that meth is “better than sex”.
I had a bishop when I was a teenager who told my Sunday School class that sex isn’t all that great. We all looked at him like he’d grown a third eye. I’m sure most of us thought that he must just be bad a sex or he was just saying that to keep us from having sex ’cause everyone knows that sex is totally awesome.
Of course he was right, but he didn’t explain it very well.
]]>i agree, jon, i think it’s got to be referring solely to actual physical intercourse, in which case, yeah, for most of us, it’s probably got to be less than 20 minutes, maybe 30 on the outside, or it’s going to become uncomfortable and start to feel like, uh, can we get on with it?
which reminds me of that time my husband tried a new “climax control” condom. he had to take a shower to get the stuff off so we could STOP having sex at some point that night.
TMI? maybe?
i suppose if you have a bit of intercourse interspersed with other stuff, like oral sex or a snack or something, then maybe it could last longer. but the whole entire “making love” session could probably last for a few hours altogether; i don’t think i’d count just the actual clinically-defined intercourse to be the sum total of the sexual experience, and hopefully sex auditors don’t, either.
]]>Yeah, it took a rather sad turn somewhere in there.
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